What else is a girl gonna do?
Bend it, Lily. Bend on.

meh she looks like she has been on a bender, so what, but is it wrong that the first thing that i thought was wonder where she got that dress from cos its bloody gorgeous

Eh… give her a break, if she's not driving, let her self medicate in peace. She'll be ok eventually. Trust, miscarriages are no fun. I was drunk as a skunk for a whole week after I had one. That kind of thing makes you question why people like Britney Spears are allowed to give birth (and it makes you pretty mad and depressed at the same time).

Plus, she just got dumped on top of losing the baby…I feel for her.

you have to feel bad for her.

On the contrary, that's the BEST way!

Sorry, Cord. I sadly had 3 of them and that is the best time to drink. Is it the most sensible way to handle it, probably not. But losing a baby doesn't feel fair. If she wants to put on a cute dress and throw back a dozen or so. Drink on drinker. She can work on the mental health tomorrow.

Her boobs look spectacular…and personally, if I had lost a baby and a boyfriend all at once, I'd let my friends take me out and get me hammered too. Frequently. Juju's right, the healthy recovery can come a little later. Just a little.

Bitch please. Take a fucking vacation with all your money, take a couple girlfriends with you and get the fuck over it. You're making a fool of yourself, for Christ sake.

i did the same thing with i lost my baby and boyfriend, only my bender included more than just booze. in time she'll get better. she'll never fully get over it but she'll find a better way to cope with her loss. i hope somebody shits on her ex, he could have at least waited a month or so to dump her. "hey our baby died, get out of my life now please", asshole.

ps- i love that dress.

The dress is gorgeous! Poor girl, it can't be easy to one day think you have it all and then poof! it's gone. Sounds like most of us have been there. Raise a glass to Lily! Drink on honey. There's plenty of time to heal later.

I agree - going on a bender after something like that isn't really a big deal. She's not driving, she's not getting arrested…just let her be. I'm sort of surprised that she went out looking like that. Her boobs look spectacular and that is a great dress. I would be at home in my sweats with 3 day greasy hair and a bottle of lambrusco.

Yeah, that's how I do it too. And occasionally stumbling out to curse the sun.

That's the way I have handled it more than once, you just don't know Cord, you just don't know.

I feel you juju I've had three myself and each time its harder, there is no sensible way of dealing I don't think, if the girl wants to drink let her drink, she deserves it.

That's a cute dress, and for the most part I'd say drink away if it helps, but she has a problem with alcohol and this little jag could lead to fucking up her career again.

By the way, is that her Ming the Merciless coat, or does it belong to the person with the pinkish hair?

God, I just channeled someone's mother.

Her waist is tiny.

Nothing cures the blues like a depressant.

You know what, I know they meant well, but after I had a miscarriage, someone said," you'll have other babies. You're young."

I wanted to say: "Is that what you want me to tell you if your husband dies?"

At least that person said SOMETHING.

You just have to go with the flow when you are grieving.