i don't know, cord. i went to catholic school and a LOT of the girls were no longer virgins by 12. hell, most lost it by 10. sad but true

gin… i went to Catholic School too. I think myself and 2 other girls in my class were the only virgins left by 8th grade.

but i'm sure it didn't take long after that, sugar mag ;)
it didn't for me. something about those short skirts and knee socks really get the boys going!

I'll be your 1st, Cord *wink wink*

I call bullshit, too. Maybe not with 12 an arbitrary number, but at 8 it's sexual abuse, not losing your virginity.

I actually held out for a few more years… like my 16th birthday during my junior year. It wasn't that I wasn't interested in it, I was just scared shitless of my dad finding out.

I bet with another girl, that if a Rod Stewert song came on while we were parking with these 2 guys that we would "do it" the song came on and I did it and she didnt. Bitch.

you're right, kitchy. but what if it was with another 8 or 9 year old? is it sexual abuse then? i'm telling you, i know a LOT of people who had concentual sex waaaay younger than 12 or 13 who would never call it sexual abuse.
but i completely understand what you are saying.

Even with a child of same age and consent, I would consider my 8-year-old to have participated in abuse at that age. Both as the abuser and the abused.

really?
as the abuser as well?

My cousin was 9 when she lost her virginity. She was pregnant by 12. She has been married since then to the same man. She is 3 weeks older than me so she is 39. Has 2 grandkids. 1 is older than my youngest son. CRAZY! She has 5 brothers & sisters. ALL of them except the oldest had kids by the time they were 16. NO parental guidence whatsoever. They all have gone on to be great parents and responsible adults. ….well most of them.

Well yeah. If my 8-year-old were performing sexual acts on another child, I'd book it to counseling immediately.

I think I might have dry humped a neighborhood kid at 8, playing "house". Is that abuse, OMG am I a victim?! Or a criminal?
Can I get disability?

Playing house and having sex are totally different. Sorry, I shouldn't have worded it as "sexual acts" and been clear on actual sex.

If my 8-year-old were responsible for taking another 8-year-old's virginity, I would be taking one serious look at what else was going on.

oh, i agree about the therapy. but to call my child an abuser? i'm not sure about that. lots of people are sexual curious as well as active at a very young age, they just don't talk about it until they get a little older.

maria, i'd totally check into disability!

uuummm… it's funny that people pretend that slutty children are a new phenomenon..

I made it to 17 thanks to my gay boyfriend. But if I'd had a boyfriend who like boobies I probably wouldn't have. I need to make sure my daughter finds a nice gay boy to date in high school.

pp, that's some family you have there! Whoa!

LOL My grandmother lived with my Aunt & her kids & my cousin told me a couple of years ago the our Grandmother took her to a hell and brimstone church and they said the world was going to end in 2000 and my cousin didn't want to die before she had kids so she got pregnant on purpose. Still my aunt gave them NO parental supervision. They all went wild after Grandma went to the nursing home. MY parents wouldn't let us stay with them BTW. So don't be judging my family PC. (you know I love ya)

I love you too, pp! I haven't said anything about my own family (on purpose, I might add!) so I'm certainly not judging yours. I could tell you stories about mine that would turn your hair white!

There was an article on pedophilia on slate a couple of months ago. A bunch of people responded by recounting their early sexual experiences. I was surprised by how many people lost their virginity in early childhood. Someone also said that it was fairly common for girls attending her catholic school to have engaged in their first sexual experiences with their brothers. So much so that a common question was “am I still a virgin if I had sex with my brother?” Why did Seventeen never run that one next to the “will the toilet seat get me pregnant” question?

all i have to say is i did NOT have sexual relations with my brother!

Good Lord, I'm so glad I didn't go to a Catholic school! Yikes!

Catholic school sure brings out the whore in people.

L… dear God no! I never had sex with my brother.

I would like to state that I am Catholic and never had sexual relations with any relatives.

And I hope that does not get a Commie.

I thought about that just as I hit submit, juju

Good thing we don't use our real names. That could be awkward to the 10th power.

That's good to hear…
When I read that, I was like really? REALLY!??!

And PP, what a way to motivate someone to go all out! The world is ending!

Oh my HEAVENS. One of my daughters used to hump this stuffed bear that she had. She would get all sweaty and stuff. Well, kids are curious no doubt. I think some are hornier that others.

I meant "than others" in the last sentence. And
I'd like to say that my family is VERY gratefull that we don't use our real names here. However they haven't forgiven me for that time that I gave away our location.

Screw the actual topic of this post. That was an AWESOME random BC reference!!

jujubees, are you my Tyler Durden? (sorry, j_b, but if you happen to need to stir your tea, well, there you go).

I "waited" until I was 17 due to a gay boyfriend in school, too, and it was only then because we broke up the summer before uni and I took out 4 years of horniness on my closest male friend. Yeah, hold on a sec while I think about tax law just so I can get past that thought. Anyway…he came out our second year at university. I was apparently the only one who was suprised by this. besides my mom who thought he was just a nice, clean cut boy with a great sense of fashion, good manners, and a Porsche. Actually, I think the Porsche skewed her gaydar.

Ah well, I suppose it could be worse. I could have explored the V.C. Andrews guide to chastity. Which makes me think that having sex with your GAY brother should technically merit you another claim to virginity after you've officially lost it the first time.

I call bullshit on you missing the sarcasm

Loosing your virginity at such a young age is nothing new. It happens all the time. people just don't want to admit it. I had been having sex since I was 9.

Hey i am new to this forum. I would just like to say, i dont go to catholic school. And i live in the teenage pregnancy capital of europe. England.
I recently lost my virginity, i was 14 and still 14 now. I wish i had of waited abit longer so loosing virginity at 8? WTF? I couldnt. I probably didnt even know what sex was at 8! I nearlly got raped at 10, but that was when i understood was sexual acts were, and i managed to stop the boy of the same age. Not until he had fingered me though, i regret 'playing' with him in his bedrooom, but i was still a child. But i try to forget that, and when i'm older i pray to god that my children do not lose their virginity before the legal sex age in the uk which is 16. And i hope they use safety procotions, and contreception. I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend and i think that it may have driven us apart, but we are still together, and i do still love him.

hey, i lost my virginity today. I'm 14, and at the time (4 hours ago), it seemed right. My girlfriend and I were all over each other; we both wanted it. But now that I've lost it, i only realise how much virginity really means to me. Like, I'm glad i did it; but there's a speck of regret that i just can't shak off…

Im 14 never went to catholic school and im still a virgin even though im always horny im always sending guys on the internet videoss of me because ive never had a bf i would havve loved to be lucky enough for someone to have sex with me by the way things are going i will be the 40 year old virgin

I don't think sean connery is fibbing here. I for one developed a sexual relationship with a classmate in the first grade, i dont remember her name, but i do remember doingthings that went beyond typical 'doctor-nurse' play.

Losin ur virginity at 9 WTF UR A L0OSE HOE

Help im 12 and i lost my virginity in march on my couch! but da thing is my kuzin took it from me. an to be truthful we keep having sex! i think im addicted bekuz i really like it an i crave him! does anyine have advice for me!?