Just to cover his bases he should post a personal ad on Craigslist under the heading 'Ike seeks his Tina'.

He needs a wife with an iron skillet.

Man seeking woman who does not know how to pour hot grits on the back of a man of God. Must also love cats.

and long walks on the beach.

sadly there will be takers…

must like wife beaters. not wearing them. being married to them.

Picture this, Barry White playing softy in the background:

(D)SBM, Highly good looking, with a touch of high maintenance (perfection doesn't come free, baby), family oriented, affectionate, attentive
and will always be there for you.

seeking nice, sweet, affectionate woman with similar family values.

You: Very patient and hard working. Must be able to adjust to all sorts of off the cuff cicumstances. Also, knowing how to please your man is high on your priority list.

Women that know how to use an iron skillet to teach some basic respect lessons need not apply.

This issue of adult humans striking out physically with others just gets to me.

Just so everyone clearly understands me,
the iron skillet that I keep referring to is a metaphorical one.

It is that blunt force object that is in your soul that you bring out when some one has crossed the line.

And you keep you voice at your usual speaking level. You don't need to raise your voice and get agitated. THEY crossed the line. GAME OVER.

I hear you qc. I hate when people act like women are blowing it out of proportion. It's such an act of betrayal, too, in a relationship.